Do you warm up before approaching?

A lot of times guys are frustrated because they can’t initiate the approach, the mood, the playful attitude and everything related. Also additional pressure is given by the fact few days ago the guys were in such great condition, their approaches went like crazy! And now they can’t even begin.

This is topic discussed many times over and over again by a lot of gurus. The emotional state a person is in have direct impact on his game. You can’t just stand up from the bed and hit by the book. Ok, you can if you are that good.

People often forgot they have to work in order to get that high energy and high emotional state, it won’t just come from nothing. High emotional state will help tremendously in all approaches and interactions. It affects the way a person say things, the way he looks, he stands, his manners and so on. Most of the time people around him are drawn into that state.

So going into this mode requires time and action

Ok, again if you are good you will need less time and less ‘manual’ action. Good tips to get your energy up before meeting someone are:

  1. play some music that make you want to dance, not that makes you think, not that makes you remember old memories, but to only make you move
  2. call some good buddy that you always have fun with for quick chat
  3. talk to people, just talk about anything with the taxi driver, with the shop personnel – even 2-3 words or sentence will make the difference, that first move into getting in momentum
  4. keep the conversations light and fun, going into deep topics and dilemmas won’t help you, you will head into different state
  5. watch fun movie on a video site

You got the idea. Going too high fast may fumble the attempt and will result in frustration. Asking the question “Why I can’t do it while I did it already yesterday” will only force the bad feeling further. This is something normal that people are not always aware of. It’s good to know it.